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Never Give Up; Never Tire Out

Never Give Up

Being Prepared for the Road Ahead

At some point in my life, I learned how to change a tire. I assume my dad taught me, because I know to loosen the bolts before lifting the car off the ground and I know to put the car jack under the axle. I don’t remember having the lesson, and I don’t remember every having to change one. Every flat I remember was some slow leak that revealed itself when I left home. Those were just small irritants that I could just call AAA to fix.

Now that I drive in China, I think about flat tires all the time. At least once a week, I see someone pushing their electric scooter down the road with one flat tire. There is so much road construction and so many huge potholes I’m actually surprised there are not hundreds more struggling with flats every day.

Last week I took a road in town I have never driven on. It was a ring road, which is like a by-pass road to avoid the city traffic and stoplights. Generally the road was clear of cars, and I was able to go the speed limit of 80km/hr (or 50 mph for my friends in America). The trip started quite nicely.

Hitting the Speed Bumps in Life

After some long distance, I was coming to a rare stop light on the road. I slowed to watch for cars, but as I had a green, I continued through. That’s when I felt seemed like my front two wheels coming off. There was a trench dug in the road – some unmarked road construction. My body tensed up wondering if I just damaged my van; my jaws were clinched and my shoulder up to my ears. What just happened?

For the next 20 minutes I was traveling at half the speed limit or less. Some was a lot less, because I now found traffic and heavy road construction. The road was going from three lanes to one and back again. It  would take me over unto the other side of the road with cars coming at us, then merge back unto several people on electric scooters. Mothers with babies on their backs were standing in the middle of the road. Old women carrying loads of something or another were also there. It was bedlam, but I was actually glad to go slow and easily navigate the now abundant potholes and road obstacles.

Pulling Over as Life Races On

Finally coming out of this crazy ordeal, I found the roundabout that took me onto the super highway (by the way, I love its name). All I had to do was accelerate to merging speed and get back on the road I was more familiar with. I started to pick up speed, watching for traffic that I was merging into. Two seconds before impact I saw a series of three or four more large potholes. With the grace and reflexes of a cat, I quickly avoided two or three. Then, wham!

I wasn’t able to avoid the last land mine. Just moments away from freedom, I know hear a strange noise out my window. Phifft, phifft, phifft, phifft, phifft, …

It was subtle, almost could have been just noise from another car. Everything was moving fine. The van was handling well. I entered into a tunnel under the mountain separating my city from the city where our farm is. Then it seemed louder. Phifft, phifft, phifft, phifft, phifft, …

Not good. Not good. I came out of the tunnel and knew I needed to get to the side of the road. I pulled over only to confirm my fears; I had a flat.

Stepping Up to Life’s Challenges

I told myself that it will be ok. I know how to change a tire. It may be China, but cars are still cars, right?

I knew I had a spare tire hanging unto the bottom of the van. I went to go find it and figure out how to get it detached. There was some kind of contraption that lowered the tire by unscrewing a nut near the back. Clever. Now to find the tire wrench.

I remembered seeing some tool under the hood. I checked there. No tire wrench, but I found the jack. Progress but not far enough. No tire wrench means I can’t get the tire off or get the spare out. Now what do I do? I’m on the side of the super highway with cars speeding by uncomfortably close. There is no city, no exit ramps in sight. What do you do in China? Can I leave a car on the side of the road?

After a few phone calls, I see a big truck on the side of the road about a half mile behind me. They had to have what I needed. They may think it weird, but it was my best option.

Looking for Hidden Provisions

I locked up the van and started making the walk toward this group of Chinese trucker men. The whole walk there, I could feel their eyes on me, although my mind was elsewhere. All I could think about was how would I be able to communicate what I needed. I don’t know any of these words in Chinese. I quickly grabbed my translation app to find flat tire and tire wrench. Flat tire, check, but no word for tire wrench. I guess I have to play charades with this one.

I reached my destination. Five men sitting on the side of the road by a large truck with its hood opened. If they were doing work on the truck, they stopped before I reached them at least to curiously watch me approach. I mustered my determination and ventured to ask them what I needed.

Here is how I imagine they heard me. “I have a tore float. I don’t have a thing (me mimicking turning a tire wrench). Can I bungle your thing?” The look in their eyes betrayed their mounting confusion.

After a pregnant pause, one of them was given inspiration that could only have come from God. He said, “flat tire?”. Not only was my pronunciation misleading, my translation had the word reversed from how these guys used it. But with new understanding, they asked about what I needed. They said something. It was a question because I could tell they wanted a response. I think by what they were doing that he wanted to know if I had a jack. I might have understood it wrong, but I said, “I have. I need a thing (then repeated the motioned to show me using a tire wrench).”

Then the man I understood to be the leader told something to the elderly man in the group, who then started to dig through a toolbox. Success, I thought. Then the leader started yelling at him and blocking me from seeing the toolbox. Maybe he doesn’t want me to know he has one. He half-heartedly reached toward the toolbox pushing the guy’s hand. Here I am in China, on the side of the road, trying to communicate with five truckers, and a fight may just break out.

Finding Unexpected Angels

The guy by the toolbox stands up with some tools. Then the leader literally pushed him towards me where he had to catch himself to not fall to the ground. He had been chosen, not only to let me borrow the tools I needed, but to change my tire for me.

Now all of us made the long walk back to my van. It was interesting journey. This team of six: five Chinese truckers and one foreigner. Nobody was talking. It was uncomfortably quiet except for the sound of cars speeding by pushing us with their wind as they passed.

Reaching the van, the elderly man started to loosen the tire bolts. Another guy got the tire jack and started to raise the van. Another guy got the spare tire down. They may never get a job in formula one racing, still they made quick work changing the tire, packed up, and started back to their truck.

Looking around, I just stood there confused. What do I do now? I weakly thanked them as they continued to walk away.

Putting It All Together

Life doesn’t always go as we expect. There are many bumps in the road, and we can either give up or find another way to go. Prayer is really no different. When we pray our expectation is to pray and then wait for the answer, but many times the road takes a detour or stops altogether. These hinderances are almost never the end that God has for us. Don’t give up. God has hidden small provisions along the way which we are to uncover.

I left the side of the road that day thanking God for His provisions. Obviously I was successfully back on the road, but there was so much more. I was given enough wisdom to successfully communicate my need, and God covered my shortcomings giving inspiration to my helpers. I only wanted to borrow the needed tool, instead I got several skilled workers to change the tire for me. And, let’s not forget I was able to get safely to the side of the road on a completely flat tire.

When life throws obstacles at you, don’t give up. Ask God what potential provisions He has available for you. We are not like those without God and without hope. We are more than overcomers. In every situation and circumstance in our lives, we have hope. Take time today thanking God for how He has provided and is providing for you. Don’t give up on those things for which you are praying. Press in for your answer. God has good in store for you.

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6 Responses to “Never Give Up; Never Tire Out”

  1. Rachel says:

    Hi Kevin,
    Thank you for your inspirational story! As I read it, I found myself wandering back to instances in my and my family’s past that were similar to what you experienced. I remember one time in particular. it was summer of 1993. My family and I were on our way up to Wisconsin for our annual vacation. We were driving our 1984 van, which, all of a sudden, started to give trouble with the engine light on. Trying to not use the engine to drive, we crept at a very slow speed, by the grace of God, somehow being able to coast up the hill to the nearest gas station. It turns out that half of our engine needed to be replaced. Several hours had already passed, and it was already dark. The gas station guy called all the hotels and motels in the area to see if we could have a room to stay in for the night, but there was some kind of event going on, and all the rooms were full. Just when we were coming to the conclusion of having to sleep in our car that night, another older guy who had been there since his daily 4:00 pm coffee time at this gas station, offered for us to stay at his house for the night with him and his wife. My sister, the next, morning, called him an angel, because it is like he was sent there from God. Of course, the guy just laughed, but was genuinely touched. However, years later, when we drove passed the place where his house was on the way up to the same vacation spot, we couldn’t find his house. It is like it all vanished. So who knows? Maybe he WAS an angel after all. But whatever he was, God really provided for us through him. And we were able to make it up to our vacation spot–my uncle came and drove us the rest of the way.
    God is truly amazing, and often does things in the most unique and unexpected ways.

  2. Rachel says:

    Oh yeah, and I am working on getting Skype, so we can still pray together.
    Thank you again for your offer.

  3. Rachel says:

    Oh, and I love the pun in your title “…don’t TIRE out”. Puns are my favorite type of humor.

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