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Tale of 2 Fathers – Isaac and Jacob

Tale of 2 Fathers
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Comparing the fathering style of Isaac and Jacob.

The book of Genesis tells of two drastically different men: one who had to work hard to get anything he wanted; the other seemed to have things fall into his lap. It is interesting that the former was father of the latter. More interestingly, how do we become like the latter?

These two men were Jacob and Joseph. Jacob is well known as being a striver. He connives his brother out of his birthright and cons hims out of his blessing. He runs away for fear of him and then gets conned into working 14 years for Rachel. The tragedy of Jacob’s life is more than the difficulties that arise, you get the impression from Jacob that he feels alone in the world. Even when he left working for his father-in-law, he leaves under deception.

Joseph, on the other hand, had much greater difficulties arise against him. The tragedy that befalls Joseph may make some balk at my earlier statement of having things fall into his lap. However, no matter what hardships arose, Joseph met each of them with success.

The effects of the father on the child.

What I noticed about these two men that was significantly different was the way that each of them was raised. Jacob was raised by Isaac who favored Esau over him. Joseph was raised by Jacob who favored him above each of his 11 brothers. Joseph knew the love of his father, which brought special attention, favors, and gifts. Jacob felt overlooked by his father and had to trick him to get attention, favors, and gifts.

It is amazing what the role of the father can play on a child. As grown men, both Jacob and Joseph lived out of the way they where taught to view themselves by their fathers. Jacob continued his belief that nothing good would just happen to him unless he went out and grabbed it. Joseph had no problem succeeding in the jail or in the palace because he believed good things would happen to him.

Which father do you relate to?

Do you believe you are more like Jacob or Joseph? If you say Jacob, there is hope for you. Even though you cannot change how you were raised, you have a Heavenly Father who wants to show you how amazing you are to Him. You don’t have to fight for His attention. You don’t have to beg Him for his favors. He adores you and desires to lavish you with good gifts.

Let go of your mindset that you are alone in this world and let God father you. Spend time with Him just to let Him love on you. Shorten your petitions for Him and just sit in His presence. He created you to be with Him. Allow Him to be with you.

I’d love to hear from you. Please leave a comment below on how you have gotten God to father you or why this is hard for you.  Blessings.

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2 Responses to “Tale of 2 Fathers – Isaac and Jacob”

  1. Bunnyb1802 says:

    Not so much for me but I see the effect of a fathers love, or absence, in my husbands life. His father was very remote emotionally then physically after my husband was sent to boarding school at a very early age. I can see why He struggles with the concept of God as Father & why he therefore does not believe. He’s never experienced such a love & is used to looking out for himself, not in a selfish way but rather operating in his own strength, like Jacob.

    Excellent post. I have something new to pray for husband. Thank you.

    • Our Western culture idolizes the independent nature. We praise those who can make it on their own. The Kingdom is different. We are to receive from our Father who enjoys giving to His children. We don’t earn our salvation; we receive it. The Christian life is walking out in faith believing we will receive those things God wants to give us… sanctification, holiness, disciples, fruit, nations, etc. Too often we hinder our growth because we want to earn it instead of receiving it.

      I relate very much to your husband. It feels like your being lazy to receive from the God. The only thing that really helps us overcome this is a greater experience with God the Father. I pray that your husband will start noticing ways God is reaching out to him as a Father. Good things are in store for your family. Blessings.

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